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How Does One Go About Finding a Life
Coach?
Let’s say, for the sake of discussion, that you really think
you need help finding a life coach. Finding a life coach is
pretty easy actually. All you need in finding a life coach is a
computer and the internet.
The first place to start in finding a life coach is to go
through the lists of one of the three regulating bodies of the
life coaching industry. First there is the International
Coaching Federation, then there is the International
Association of Coaching, and finally there is the European
Coaching Institute which would probably do you no good in
finding a life coach in Kansas City. Missouri or Kansas it
makes no difference, the Europeans will be no help in finding
you a life coach in Kansas City.
Finding a good life coach is a whole different tomato all
together. All three of the associations that are set up to
certify life coaches are private organizations and they have no
government guidelines to follow at all. So I guess you could
say that the life coach market is a free for all and finding a
good life coach will be quite a challenge. All you really have
to go on is the recommendations of clients of the life coach
you are considering and that may not be very helpful as those
are easily manipulated as well. In order to really find a good
life coach you are just going to have to either find one that a
trusted friend has used or keep going through life coaches
until you find one you like.
Put Me in Coach
Some people need guidance in their life and in that way a life
coach can be a trusted friend that helps you through the
tougher times in your life like a divorce or a job transition.
Of course the life coach will be a trusted friend that you pay
to be your trusted friend and that could potentially cause
problems that you would need a therapist for later but that
will be later. A life coach is not to be confused with a
therapist but you may want to start with a therapist before you
move on to a life coach.
If you feel you need a life coach then obviously you either
feel that something is missing in your life or you are going
through a difficult time. In any of these circumstances it may
be best to see a therapist first and lay the ground work for
the help you need. Your therapist may be able to help you find
a life coach that can be there for you and help you effect the
changes that the therapist recommends but keep in mind that a
life coach is not a therapist.
Think of a life coach like a football coaching staff. The head
coach is the therapist. What the head coach says is what goes
in all situations. The life coach is like the offensive
coordinator. The life coach helps to execute the head coach’s
game plan but the coordinator cannot make any changes without
having the players check with the head coach first. You are the
players. See how that works? Confused? Well good; that means
you are ready for a life coach!
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